Living in the
Moment
The three major temporal tenses are past, present, and
future. The past has happened, the present is happening, and the future has yet
to happen. Which of these is the most important? Is it the past, rife with
lessons that we can learn from those who experienced those things the hard way?
Is it the future, filled with promise and possibility?
Or is it the present, the happening, the now? What happens now will become the
past, and whatever the future holds for you will become the present. Of the
three tenses, it is the hub, the central tense, with influence over both. Can
you change the past? No, but you can add new and better things to the new-past
by your actions now. Can you change the future? Definitely. What you do now
plays a big part in deciding what will come of you in the future.
The power of the present is that it cannot be affected by
either the past or the future. What has happened has happened, but it is not now: “The past has no power over the
present moment,” says Eckhart Tolle. Those events cannot act on you
now...unless, of course, you focus on the past and let it poison your heart. It
only has as much power as you allow. The past can be a useful tool, to be sure,
but do not let it be your life.
And what of the future? Can you know with absolute certainty
what will happen? No, you cannot. So why allow what has not occurred to
overcome what is occurring now? Jesus
told us to “never be anxious about the next day, for the next day will
have its own anxieties.” Why? “Each day has enough of its own troubles.” (Matt.
6:34) Why tackle problems of the future when you’re already struggling and
dealing with the problems of now?
Yesterday is history,
tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the
present. -Alice Morse Earle
Have a look at that quote there. Let’s break it down. Yesterday is history. The past is
history. Everything we do becomes history. It happens, and then it is done.
Closed. Finished. History is a chronicle of events, a narrative, a story. A
story can be true, of course, but what you have to take in account is that it
was only completely true when it was
happening. It isn’t true or factual about the present moment, so why let it
interfere with now?
Tomorrow is a mystery.
The etymology of the word ‘mystery’ shows that it refers to secrecy. Secret
rites, secret worship, ‘only those in the know’. Secrets are things that are
shut up, that are closed off, from someone. This is true of the future. It is
shut off from us, because we inhabit the present. And before you say “but if I
sit here for a minute, I’ll be one minute into the future!”, let me tell you
that that line of thinking is wrong. One minute has been added to the past, and
you are still in the present moment. The future is closed off to us. Having
hopes and dreams and promises of the future can help your mind in the present
day, but you cannot make those things happen any faster, you cannot move
towards them, nor can you decide that everything you hope for will happen with
absolute certainty. Your actions now can decide some things yet to happen, but
you will not know the outcome until those things come into the present. You can
create the past and slightly affect the future, but you cannot escape the
present.
The present, however, is nothing to be feared or to be
looked down upon. Consider the rest of the quote: Today is a gift of God, which is why we call it the present. When
you wake up in the morning, your eyelids fluttering open to see the sun shining
in through your window, breath slowly filling and leaving your lungs, are you
not happy to be alive? Are you not happy to be,
to exist? Existence cannot escape the present. Being is the present tense. You are a human being, not a human been
or a human will-be.
You exist, you are, you are a being, thanks to Jehovah. Life
is a gift from God, and, aside from the ransom sacrifice of his son Jesus, it
is the best and most wonderful gift he has given us. Ralph Marston said that
“life does not owe you anything because life has already given you everything.”
Being alive is enough. Inhabiting today
is enough. Yesterday is done, and tomorrow has not yet begun. All that remains
is today, is now. Yesterday was a
today, and tomorrow will become a today. All there is is today. And that is everything.
I have loved you, I love you, and I will keep loving you.
But the greatest of these is I love you, for
the others owe their existence to it.
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